Chúng ta hãy cùng tìm hiểu tình yêu nhé !

[Charlie_051181]

Dearest mates ,
A three age kid can clearly say " I love you " with his good imitation without any understanding of its meaning whatsoever. But we are not the kids so I 'm pleased to give out a statement for cussing . What does the sentese " I love you " mean ?
Please do something great for other visitors coming and contemplating !

[BILLNHUNG]

" A bell is not a bell 'til someone rings it
A song is not a song 'til someone sings it
A love is not a love 'til someone receives it
And I'm not myself 'til I Love U "

" When I say ' I love ' ,' I ' is the subject of a sweet verb , and then if I complete this wonderful sentence , it'll be ' U ' "
Here r some sentences about Love.Perhaps they r not entirely right,but,be that as it may, are ones of human beings who are in love & will be in...okie ?

[ICQ]

:( :( :( :( :( This is my favourite theme of cussion but, please give something more so we can have a better start. I want to give my ideas but, if it's to nothing, I don't want.
Now, charlie, what do you think the sentence "I love you" mean ? Give your ideas first if you want to ignite a cussion here.

[Charlie_051181]

Originally posted by ICQ@Dec 24 2002, 01:33 PM

Now, charlie, what do you think the sentence "I love you" mean ? Give your ideas first if you want to ignite a cussion here.
Hey ,ICQ you are very adept at eliciting . Interprete your feelings when you were saying it to your Gi .
This need can be viewed with : What mainly motivates you to say it .

[ICQ]

-This need can be viewed with : What mainly motivates you to say it --> that is " an intelligent and interesting cussion" that motivates me to say it. You have good reason to start a cussion, but the cussion is good only if you prepared enought for it, prepare your first ideas and your knowleage to protect your ideas.
I mean if you really want to get a cussion but not a chatting, so you need to invest for it ( like I used to) and your first writting is very important at attracting people's attention. But reading yours, I don't know where and how to start... (Sorry if that's my poor ablity of getting with your introduction)
Anyway, I think I will prefer the topic which I can catch the writter's enthusiastic (like what toilaai and Miss Sharky wrote).
- toan la nhung nguoi mat goc ca --> chip_girl có chắc rằng chip_girl không phải là người mất gốc không :) khi mà dùng tiếng Việt còn chưa sõi nữa (lần sau thì bật Telex lên và nhớ viết hoa đầu dòng em nhé).

[ICQ]

Oh yes, Charlie, could you tell me what do you mean by Gi, I don't understand it.

[BILLNHUNG]

Xin lỗi bạn nhé , hết mails rồi tham gia topic để chỉ nói với tôi cái câu này sao ??? Rõ ràng phải biết đây là Diễn đàn Lam Sơn , đây là Box chuyên Anh chứ ? Tại sao lại có những câu nói khó nghe vậy . Người ta cũng phải có một cái gì để hi vọng , để cố gắng chứ. Có thể tôi sẽ không bao giờ làm được, nhưng tôi có quyền tham gia diễn đàn, viết những gì tôi cho là đúng , bằng thứ tiếng mà tôi có thể , và với tất cả tình cảm mà tôi dành cho Box này, diễn đàn này, cho cả người mà tôi coi là Thần tưọng nưa. Còn bạn thì không có lẽ chưa đủ quyền lấy những điều đó ( của tôi ) ra để phê phán hay chỉ trích đâu. Nhân đây, làm ơn hãy dừng ngay việc mails cho tôi đi , vô ích thôi. Và hãy suy nghĩ lại về việc bạn tham gia diên đàn nữa nhé !cảm ơn
To ev'ryone : Sorry all members of Eng. Box , I do not mean to type that, but pls , maybe this is an esp. situation ,so pls.

[NguyenHuuNam12F]

Xong rồi, Tuyết Nhung Tiểu Thư nhà ta lên tiếng thì có vài tên chết như sau, các bác đừng ăn nói linh tinh để Tuyết Nhung Tiểu Thue nhà ta phải lên tiếng nghen, -=[ Lời khuyên Trân Thành ]=-

[tuananhmu]

:P He he ông Nam nhà mình bây giờ cũng vào web của Lam Sơn à, này có giề sang bên thể thao viết bài nhé, còn Bill Nhung cũng bớt nóng đi nhé. : :rolleyes: :D

[Charlie_051181]

Originally posted by ICQ@Dec 25 2002, 12:02 AM
- . You have good reason to start a cussion, but the cussion is good only if you prepared enought for it, prepare your first ideas and your knowleage to protect your ideas.
I mean if you really want to get a cussion but not a chatting, so you need to invest for it ( like I used to) and your first writting is very important at attracting people's attention. But reading yours, I don't know where and how to start... (Sorry if that's my poor ablity of getting with your introduction)

To ICQ : I am wafully sorry for being absent as well as poor care-taking of what I've written . Then thank you greatly for schooling and pointing out my unexceptable deficencies , please condone them , it is irreponsible of me to give birth to a metality child without careful nurturing . Anyway I myself think that here is an ideal playground for all revellers seemingly revealing their mistakes even something vulgar . I have been on the go because of the exams , so please now let me back and state what mentioned earlier .
Once again , thanks very much for that !

[Charlie_051181]

" I love you " is known as one of the most famous sentence in the syntax system . Not few people can say it in many different languages , but the major concern of how to say them is not simple at all . Let's cuss in a small field of darling or spousal relations . " I love you " sounds seemingly simple , but in fact it is really significant and complicated . When being spoken out , the speaker has needed a long time to ponder how , where and when to say , even consisting of fears ,shivering when she or he is about to receive feedback from the partner . Think of a thoughtfull girl in the facing of giving out feedback to her boyfriend after hearing this sentence from him . It can take her several months for decision making process , Now , we can ask why this sentence is so important and scare . As pointed out earlier , when knowing exactly what stimulates you to say it , we will know whai it is . The subject speaking it out to his girlfriend is the one who wants to devote his heart to her , eagerly doing everything for her with a view to having her simply beacuse he loves her . I guarantee that you never say " I love you " to the girl who makes no sense to you , or you do not like at all but wanting to make joke . It is something banal , not an entity but it has its own soul that can make you fear , happy or appointed .
However , so many people are nowadays taking advantage if it for their dark thinkings , they let money or something like that govern it without knowing he or she is wilting a blind heart . What will happen to her (him) when this sentence has no longer efficiency , when it is dwindled .
Here is some limtited viewpoints stated for eveyone to contemplate , Please build it bigger with your various opinions .

[Charlie_051181]

Where is ICQ ?

[BILLNHUNG]

I'm very sorry to medde in your affair.Seeing you 're having a cussion about the definition of the ' I love you' sentence, I do want to have a small idea, okie?
As far as I know, when calling the name of the feeling of a man for a woman, Shakespeare didn't use the ' love ' word, but the ' affection ' .It is not only the appearance, but the more important thing is the affection of our souls. So when we say ' I love you ', it means having to do sth sincere and special to affect each other between 2 lovers.
We should say ' I 've been loving you ' instead of normally ' I love you ' ,rite ? ;)
Thanks .

[Charlie_051181]

To Nhung: We cannot believe that you have such great idea , BillNhung , it's really nice . And could you do me a great favour by calling ICQ back to our box ? He has done something excellent and this box still needs him as forever . I've consulted some opinions of stating out the meaning of " I love you " . We might not give out the real answer for it because the world consists of billions of people and each of them has his or her own way of loving . Partly bercause their hearts and brains are different , preposing them to act in certain ways that's got to be right in their minds as always even when being bent by others .
To ICQ :Have you seen my big thank , ICQ ? Lately this box has been thought to be the pagoda without being able to welcome any prayer . We are on the way on solving so many fat problems bringing more fun and benifits . Please be back and lead this box to new bright sky.

[ICQ]

Thank you for calling me back Charlie. I'm very appriciated that you took my words and didn't forget me, I'm sorry that I couldn't answer your topic for long time.

I wonder you wrote all the things by your own experience or did you have any reference to to this, because all the things you wrote is not much difference from my own experience. My first time of speaking "I love you" to the girl I love was not a good experience, I was too stiff and strained. I was regreted by all this until I found one saying "the first time to say love is the time to be strained".

But I think we don't say "I love you" only one time, and also don't say it only to the girl we first love./ I mean, for a couple saying and hearing " I love you" become an unberefable demand, saying "I love you" become an assuring and reassuring of love, it confirms and grounds love.

I have a friend, who is now studying in Russia. He has a girl friend living in Viet Nam, it's not easy for them to love in that condition and in that condition, their love is vitalied only by some sweet words. Each time he call his girl friend, saying "I love you" is completely neccessary, if because of the talking they forget to say " I love you" when good bye, it's nothing to him to call back just to hear and say the words. So to lovers, saying and hearing "I love you" is just vitamin of their love, which is unberefable.

[Charlie_051181]

Wo..a.a, It's great to see you again ,ICQ .

[Charlie_051181]

Well , long time no visitor dropped this site . I am coming back with some maundering of how to know how we are in love , or whether we trully love our boyfriend / girlfriend
The definition of LOVE is till far away from us and is understood as something utopian or abstract . Some psychologistes have lately found that we can base on the reality to determine how it is .
So you just choose your number from 1 to 5 with the increaing level of love that you are in .
1. You always think of ( him / her ) as a beloved and perfect one .
2. When some one else criticizes him/her you feel unpleasant even you want to uphold.
3. You seriously think of your getting married whenever you miss or associate her/him.
4. You are really jealous of who going out with her/him even talking about him/her
5. When being apart you have lots of sweet ideas , but when being with him/her you feel nervious and unutterable
6.You really want to talk about him/ her at anytime
7.You just want to keep him/her for your own
8. You sometime think of him/her with happy having
9. You think that nothing can prevent your love and he/she must be yours
10.You try to do everything for him/her all the time .

OK , the maximum score will be 50 and the minimum is 5 . The higher score you get will show you the more you love and stronger your love is .
Good luck and hope to recieve your real commendation . :)>-

[Charlie_051181]

Khi không yêu sẽ chẳng bao giờ người ta có thể định nghĩa được thế nào tình yêu, và khi yêu rồi người ta chỉ biết người ta đang nghĩ gì còn tại sao lại nghĩ như vậy thì vẫn còn là điều bí ẩn . Tâm trạng của những người trong lúc yêu như thế nào , khi nghĩ về một tình yêu đẹp với tương lai tươi sáng trong sự chờ đợi và nhớ thương của người yêu người ta cảm thấy phấn chấn và thoải mái tinh thần , tìm thấy nhiều niềm vui hạnh phúc dập dờn trong ý nghỉ và có những nụ cười mỉm vô cớ . Nhưng cũng có lúc thấy hậm hực vì nghi ngờ hay phải chờ đợi quá lâu tin tức của người yêu . Khi yêu và được yêu , cuộc sống sẽ trở nên hấp dẫn lạ lùng , người ta tìm thấy nhiều động cơ để sống . Một tình yêu được gọi là đẹp khi được trải qua mọi cung bậc của tình cảm . Bạn sẽ thấy nhàm chán khi suốt ngày được người yêu quá quan tâm hay âu yếm . Các cung bậc tình cảm đó là chờ mong , vui mừng , hi vọng , thất vọng ( tạm thời) , hờn ghen , tiếc nuối và yêu say đắm .
Tớ khuyên nhỏ bạn là đừng bao giờ yêu đơn phương cho dù người đó là ai , đặc biệt khi đã chót yêu đơn phương đừng tỏ ra quá mãnh liệt hay bị động , người bạn yêu có thể sẽ biến những sự quan tâm ấy thành sự khinh biệt . Yêu đã khó nhưng giữ được tình yêu thì còn khó hơn nghìn lần .